Daughter of Eve

So your relationship is on its last  legs , your man is on the verge of walking away for good, you are stressed out and feel desperate so you think “I know! I will have a baby and he will realise how much he loves me and we will stay together and play happy families forever right? “ WRONG!
Why do some women think that this shit works, in fact it never works, most of the time the guys bolt before the baby is born or if you are lucky and he feels a bit bad he may stick around till after  the baby is born. Heck he may even stay a few months /years. I unfortunately the inevitable happens HE IS GOING TO LEAVE YOU. Even if he does not physically walk away , he will cheat and guess what he will resent you.

I have come across one too many women who have tried to pull/have pulled this shit and the one that suffers most is a baby. I just don’t get it ! In fact a cousin of mine just tried to do this to her man and guess what he secretly swabbed the babys DNA , sent it to a lab and it emerged that it was not his!
Its these women that end up lamenting about how harsh life is and complaining about how crap these men are at looking after their kids.

I would love to get a mans perspective on this.

In this day and age all that honour stuff is dead these days if you get knocked up more often than not the guy will drive you to the nearest abortion clinic or tell you where to go.  I actually know a guy in Zim who killed himself because he got a girl preggers and his parents were trying to force him to marry her.

My friends and I have a term for this type of scenario its called having a baby trap-a-brother I know someone who  is miserable as hell coz she lost the man AND she is stuck with the baby.  Its not only mere mortals that do this. Usher got trapped by that nasty Tameka! The Dream has been trapped by Christina Milian (not that the guys are innocent)

I am intrigued and a bit horrified when I think of the lengths that some women will go to in order to trap/keep a man.  Having a baby is top of that list, I would never fight for a man (fisticuffs are not my style and I am too cute for jail), I would never stay with a man that I knew was cheating (I know a chick who KNOWS her man is screwing around but she stays coz he earns almost 100k £) I  am definitely too scared to catch aids and I  will never stay with a man that hits me just for the sake of having a man. Shit my soon to be ex husband bounced and I let that *fool walk because I respect and love myself too much.

Women amaze me - how far would you go to hang on to a man?